Persef2 3rdEntry: Significant Others

INTERPERSONAL NEEDS

Well, I think currently I don't actually have a very significant other. but I use to have one. It was my "Ex Special someone" :). Our relationship with each other was beyond anything I can think of. Our type of relationship was very personal. Anything could be said in our discussion. We always say what we feel about each other and we don't keep anything from each other. The funny thing about it is we seem to be opposites of another. We compliment each other's flaws. Like him being always late and me having good time management and influencing him to be time-conscious as well. I think our relationship was very special and I would take any chance to bring it back.

COST-REWARD THEORY

I think I have a cost-reward type of relationship with my friends. The cost that I pay is the loyalty and the time I give to them and I guess the reward is also the time and loyalty that they give back to me.

BALANCE THEORY

This theory I have with all my relationship. I am the type of person that gives the amount of things to a person that the person gives me too. If the person does not put a lot into me I will not give him a lot either. It it my very instinct to return every favor that a person have given me.

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